Sunday, November 25, 2007

Hey Guys!

Sorry as i have not post for quite awhile. Just to inform you guys once again that i will update this blog weekly. Sorry to keep you waiting. Recently, quite a number of my friends got married. I was wondering, is this month or period a wedding period? Well, to be honest, all of their wedding are great. I find that wedding is a sacred and wonderful thing. Both couple make their vows, two hearts combined to become one in Christ. This day mean a lot for a girl i must say. The day that they long for, marrying the guy they love and live with them forever. It is a once in a lifetime thing for them, definitely they must treasure this romantic moment. Same for guys, you have to treasure it as well. Spending the rest of your life with your lovely wife is something important too.

Some, but not all the guys prefer to stay alone for the rest of their live, thinking that they can by changing girlfriend like once a month or once a year is an enjoyable moment in his life. i strongly believe that for guys, the first think that comes into their mind is sex, but think twice or even thrice, changing girlfriend, or sleeping with different girls really satisfied you? I understand it might not be easy for a guy to stare at the same thing for the rest of his life as you will get bored with it, but think again, your girlfriend, or your wife is not a thing. They are human and they have feelings too. Instead of feeling bored, why not think of ways to make them happy or think of ways to woo them again, just like the first time you woo her. Putting in so much effort to catch her attention and to say:"yes" to be with you (for some). Changing of girlfriend can allow you to feel the love or the feeling of being love?

In a relationship, quarrels will never be missed out. Some of it might be major, and some might be just minor things. And when quarreling, both parties will tend to think of the negative side of one another. Digging out all the bad points or the past incidents to quarrel with each other, trying to see who will win the fight. Well, it doesn't mean that it is wrong for a couple to quarrel, just that quarreling is the way for both the guy and the girl to know and learn more from each other. When both are at the fighting period, try to think of the good times both of you had together. Learn to give and take equally for both parties, thus this will helped a lot in a relationship. As we know that it takes two hands to clap, if one is not doing his/ her job, how can a clap be done? This applies to a relationship. Well, i should say that it is easy for one to find a girlfriend or a boyfriend, but it is very hard for one to find the person that suits you. There is no rush when come to find a soul mate, everything takes time and when the time comes, you will find your Miss/ Mr Right.

There's a saying says that: "Behind every successful man, there will be a successful woman" . This means that behind every successful husband, there will be a successful wife, who will be behind the husband, supporting them, helping and serving them. Most of the time, guys will be the breadwinner who brings the income back for the family and trust me ladies, it is not an easy task at all. Guys have to do their best to provide for the family, giving them the best that they want. Sometimes guy will be at their lowest point of mood, so girlfriends/wives out there, show them the love and give them the moral support they need. Instead of nagging them or scolding children when they come back from work. This will make them more frustrated and don't feel like coming back home. Try to ask them how's their work and make them feel how much you love and care for them.

It is true that the wife should submit themselves to their husband when they got married, but that doesn't mean that they should be the slave for their husband. Same for the husband, they should love and treasure their wife but not asking them or ordering them to do things. Pamper your wife and try to discover or observed what they like and get for them. It is something that husbands should do for their lovely wives. Get them a little gifts at times to thank them for all the things that they have done for you. Make them happy and make them the most fortunate wife in this world.

It is never easy for a couple to maintain their relationship, but it is not too hard either. Communication is the key for everything. when both of you have problems, talk it out nicely instead of shouting and yelling like nobody business. Do not quarrel in the public as it is not an act or drama for everyone to see, unless you want to be part in star search. Look at the bright side of life and bright side of your relationship. Sometimes we know that the boyfriend or the girlfriend is treating our friend badly, yet they still want to be with them and love them. Please do not blame or scold them, because as we know love is blind, that is why they are so willing to hang on to their relationship. The most we can do is to listen to them and giving them advise and let them decide on how they want to handle it.

So all the people who are married and attached, i hope these little things can help you somehow. It might be tough for the rest of your life, as both of you might/will be facing more and more difficulties, but i hereby pray for all the couples that you will have a blissful and lovely marriage/relationship. Pray that you will love one another more and more, deeper and deeper, sweeter and sweeter.

God bless you and have a great week ahead.
-Pastaboy <=^_'=>



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Friday, November 16, 2007

Hi there,

Pastaboy is here to share with you guys things of what i experience and many more. So all viewers out there, hope you will enjoy reading and feel free to post your comment to help me improve this blog. Thanks a lot and have a great and wonderful day ahead.

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